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I think she at least enjoys my passion and seeing how happy I am about it. I still like seeing what she likes and I love seeing her happy. Part of any healthy friendship or another type of relationship is learning how to balance your conversations between those that are mutually interesting and those that are specific to only one of you.

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I think others aspects also, like self-esteem and communication skills, can play a big deal to make you either sort of a listener or talker person.

This is a really excellent and useful article. Thank you for writing this. I live in SE England and have several really true old friends from my youth with whom I get on very well, but they all live miles and miles away Scotland, Australia, Amsterdam, etc. I also have one very good friend who lives about 5 miles away.

I am already doing all the things you suggest to keep a conversational balance! I trained to teach Maths, and also as a Citizens Advice volunteer, so active listening comes naturally to me.